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Time posted a condolence
You told me once that everyone would be better off without you and we'd forget and move on.
I told you you were wrong...that you were loved by so many people.
The love pours out of these pages Jack, and I for one will never forget
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t posted a condolence
You were among my dearest of friends... through joys & sorrows. I think I saw a billowy blue snowflake fall from the sky this morning. : )
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t posted a condolence
White cedar spruce flicker- here's to helping people through the longest, coldest, darkest of nights.
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me posted a condolence
Beautiful one- sometimes,we all feel a bit hollow;
Embraced the ups and downs wrapped us up in them like a flannel nightgown;
Some days I see you everywhere, in everything, everywhere.
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t posted a condolence
... walk closely, talk softly, smile sweetly, in peace~ beyond the billowy big blue sky. ~
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"joy" posted a condolence
I remember the taste of the moment; As close to perfect as I've ever been... "Some people say that it's a sin to know and feel so much within. I still believe that you were my twin. One of us born to soon- the other born to late. Blame it on a simple twist of fate." dylan
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remembrance posted a condolence
"... learning to live without you now
But I miss you,Baby
The more I know, the less I understand
All the things I thought I figured out, I have to learn again
I've been tryin' to get down to the Heart of the Matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts seem to scatter...{forgiveness, forgiveness - even if you chose not to be here anymore}". miss you
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Mom posted a condolence
It's almost your 30th birthday... we miss you so much... not a day passes that doesn't crush our hearts. I will NEVER recover from losing you.
Love,
Mom
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like a bird... posted a condolence
Back when there were books left to read, songs unwritten, a guitar yet to pick, and a "woman left undone".
"Sunday Morning Coming Down"~
"You're beautiful, that's for sure. You'll never ever fade.
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Particle Accelerator III in your honor, Jack...
July 11, 2009 at the Brooklyn Fairgrounds....
our rock festival to raise awareness of suicide, and depression education.
So that no others suffer the loss that suicide delivers.
We miss you...
we love you.
Mom
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~me posted a condolence
Moi je t'offrirai..
Des perles de pluie..
Venues de pays..
Ou il ne pleut pas..
... where it never rains
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lyrics.... posted a condolence
There's a better place
... ...
And every tear
He'll wipe away
The darkness will be gone
The weak shall be strong
Hold on to your faith
There will come a day...
Song will ring out
Down those golden streets
The voices of earth
The angels will sing: hallelujah (I hope similar to Jeff Buckley's version!)
~hug
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Mom posted a condolence
I miss you so much, my sweet son... your birthday this year was extra hard... we had a celebration of your life instead of a memorial for your death... friends and family came from far and wide... you still impact us mere humans... who cannot bear the loss of an angel...
your brother is getting married, and it's sad for us to fathom this happy occasion with you gone...
i love you
i miss you
your mom always
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~t posted a condolence
"I went up to the mountain
Up over the clouds
To where the sky was blue
I could see all around me
Everywhere - EVERYWHERE!
Sometimes I feel like
I've never been nothing but tired
And I'll be walking
Till the day I expire
Sometimes I lay down
No more can I do
But then I go on again
Some days I look down
Afraid I will fall
And though the sun shines
I see nothing at all
Then I hear your sweet voice,
The peaceful valley
Just over the mountain
The peaceful valley
Few come to know...
I may never get there
Ever in this lifetime
But sooner or later
It's there I will go
Sooner or later
It's there I will go"
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just me posted a condolence
Ups & downs – his share of these
He’d been reading the bible-
Don’t know if it ever brought him to
His knees.
Up on a stage himself he found
Spotlight going round –
Another shot of that potion
Another night on the town.
Days & nights going by
Mustering up the courage
To give a new thing a try-
Wanting to know what it feels like to fly.
Spotlight going round
His share of ups, his share of downs,
Sometimes lost, sometimes found-
Between birth and death, all we have to
Do is live…. Don’t ever ask why-
Some people just live life - like birds without wings -wanting to know what it
Feel s like to fly.
~04/09 for u
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stefanie posted a condolence
almost 2 years since your'e gone....listening to anthony and the johnsons thinking about you:
"I am a bird girl now
I've got my heart
Here in my hands now
I've been searching
For my wings some time
I'm gonna be born
Into soon the sky
'Cause I'm a bird girl
And the bird girls go to heaven
I'm a bird girl
And the bird girls can fly
Bird girls can fly"
xxx
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~t posted a condolence
Above the clouds
where the sky is its truest blue~
I thought about you having drew clouds... I smiled at you.
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~t posted a condolence
Found a picture of you yesterday; taken 2004/05. One of the new gals who never had the opportunity to know you commented, "He's so cute, looks like a sweet-heart." M. & I just looked at each other and exchanged warm comforting smiles. I said, "yes, a sweet-heart he was" and was filled with all the world's affection. We all loved you... it's almost impossible to be angry with you - affection is stronger than anger and always wins out. Miss you, Jack. Hugs Galore are sent to you.
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missu posted a condolence
"Has anyone ever written anything for you-
In all your darkest hours?"
Has anyone ever given anything to you- have you ever heard me sing? - {in your blissful hours?} (:
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Merry Christmas, my precious son!! We love you... and miss you terribly.
Mom, Dad and Ben
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-misty posted a condolence
White lined nothingness
became everything
The look on your face
a truth overcoming honesty
Me on tiptoes- you were
taller than me…
Last thing on my mind
before I fell asleep
A warm December memory.
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A thought away posted a condolence
Yesterday, I saw what I believed to be one of your paintings across the sky...
"That's Jack" ~ passing by.
(((((((((( ))))))))))
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forever in my heart posted a condolence
soon,i'll be where i was with you...i don't know how it's gonna be without you...
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"This one, for the road..." posted a condolence
Beautiful Rebel, you know, see, & feel so much. Through the ambiguity you will come to know... As for love and affection, may your needs always be nurtured. The external image is nothing- Nothing, compared to what's inside. May you never feel alienated, or alone but filled with love and faith, and contentment inside.
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Good Vibes posted a condolence
Every once in a blue moon,
among the pale ash, plays an old familiar tune;
Dancing outside the window late at night- some are red, my favorites are white;
Ebb and flow washes them upon the shore- crystal blue knocks upon my door;
Ah Dear Jack,it's you again- sit a while- come on in;
Let's discuss colors of the night, the timid moon, the vibrant red, the tender white.
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Mom posted a condolence
I love you Jack
my little Jack
saw a little red bird this morning
and smiled, thinking how
cool it would be to fly....
still crushed by your passing
still all thoughts lead back to you
flowers bloom, the sun shines,
...and you're still gone.
I miss you,
and my love for you
knows no bounds,
sleep well child....
mom
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moments and memories posted a condolence
Sometimes, I feel you near; a presence, a whispering in my ear. We so often communicated through written word- poetry, lyrics, otherwise unspoken dreams. "If I looked deeply..." ,"like a lovely lonesome sky", "Beautiful Portraits", "That great abyss", "Perfect Mishaps- Serendipity", "Tokens of Affection", "Honesty is a heart-beat away..", "Hey Andalou", "Time Beads off your body", Amid rain and golden horses", "Incorruptible", "Come some rainy day", "Jar full of Rhythm & Blues", "The stage frees you from the "cage"", "Prayed with faith, with all my might", "Kissed the Dark", "Beautiful Rebel", "Thistle sweet", "The Waters Edge","As Angels Do", "Hundreds of Thoughts", "So that we might remember", and so many more. ~Every bit of it mattered, joys, the ordinary, the torn and tattered. ~ I think of you and recall "Painlessly Free", blow a kiss toward the heavens, to land upon your cheek, to you from me.
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thoughts of J posted a condolence
Hey J,
I was not able to make Particle Accelerator this year. I was working intervention- (maybe I helped make it a bit easier for someone to cope & better able to get through their day; that's the hope, anyway.) You & yours were on my mind. As always, love ya~ "always keep a little bit of sweetness inside."
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Three months before The Legendary Jack Young Jr. committed suicide, he tried to get help for his depression and substance abuse, but was turned down for lack of health insurance. PARTICLE ACCELERATOR is a benefit rock show to raise money for and increase awareness of suicide and depression, with the sole purpose of educating our youth and assisting those with no health insurance who want or need help with mental health issues.
PARTICLE ACCELERATOR II
June 28, 2008
11am -11pm
Brooklyn Fairgrounds, Brooklyn, CT
Rain or Shine
$10.00 in advance
$15.00 at the door
Raffles, Food, Art Show, Fun!
To benefit United Services, Inc.
Check out www.particleaccelerator.org
For more information!
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memories posted a condolence
You took my hand
You showed me how
You promised me you'd be around
That's right
If someone said three years from {then}
You'd be long gone
I'd stand up and punch them up
Cause they're all wrong
Remember when we were such fools
And so convinced and just too cool
Oh no
No no
I wish I could touch you again
I wish I could still talk to you, friend
I'd give anything
When someone said count your blessings now
For they're long gone
Who knew?
Until we meet again
And I won't forget you my dear friend
Until we meet again
I keep Your memory
You visit me in my sleep
Who knew?
I miss you...
Who knew?
~Pink Lyrics
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memories posted a condolence
You took my hand
You showed me how
You promised me you'd be around
That's right
If someone said three years from {then}
You'd be long gone
I'd stand up and punch them up
Cause they're all wrong
Remember when we were such fools
And so convinced and just too cool
Oh no
No no
I wish I could touch you again
I wish I could still talk to you, friend
I'd give anything
When someone said count your blessings now
For they're long gone
Who knew?
Until we meet again
And I won't forget you my dear friend
Until we meet again
I keep Your memory
You visit me in my sleep
Who knew?
I miss you...
Who knew?
~Pink Lyrics
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memories posted a condolence
You took my hand
You showed me how
You promised me you'd be around
That's right
If someone said three years from {then}
You'd be long gone
I'd stand up and punch them up
Cause they're all wrong
Remember when we were such fools
And so convinced and just too cool
Oh no
No no
I wish I could touch you again
I wish I could still talk to you, friend
I'd give anything
When someone said count your blessings now
For they're long gone
Who knew?
Until we meet again
And I won't forget you my dear friend
Until we meet again
I keep Your memory
You visit me in my sleep
Who knew?
I miss you...
Who knew?
~Pink Lyrics
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What is joy but sorrow unmasked,; Sorrow but joy once known... posted a condolence
"Sweeter than any star you can reach
Is when you reach and find
you've found someone
You'll hold this world's
most priceless thing
The greatest gift this life can bring
If you can look back and know
You were loved.
You were loved by someone
Touched by someone
Held by someone
Meant something to someone
Loved somebody
Touched somebody's heart along the way..."
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memories posted a condolence
Weren't we like children at the beach, the ocean our wishing well- making wishes for one another upon starfish held in our tiny hands? Wasn't life so very full- full of both tumble & ascend? It saddened me to know when you were unhappy- How was I to know that day would be the last time I'd see you; that I'd not see your smile {here} again? As it once was written between us, "Through life's daily "grind" tumble & ascend, what better find, than a true friend?"
~thought of you today
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memories posted a condolence
Weren't we like children at the beach, the ocean our wishing well- making wishes for one another upon starfish held in our tiny hands? Wasn't life so very full- full of both tumble & ascend? It saddened me to know when you were unhappy- How was I to know that day would be the last time I'd see you; that I'd not see your smile {here} again? As it once was written between us, "Through life's daily "grind" tumble & ascend, what better find, than a true friend?"
~thought of you today
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janet smith posted a condolence
I just saw this site while looking for a more recent obituary. I had no idea that Jack had passed almost a year ago. He was my student at PHS for two years. I still have a French valentine that he drew years ago - it shows his charm, talent, and subtle sense of humor. I always think fondly of him when I see it in a container of items kept from former students. I always thought the world of Jack - he was a gentleman! We often spoke of music, as my younger son is also a musician and just about the same age. I'm so saddened that his life was cut so short - I always hoped he would find great happiness. My sincerest condolences to his family. Janet Smith
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stefanie posted a condolence
always thinking of you and missing you...you'll always have the best place in my heart..."let's follow the cops back home and rob their houses"...i miss you so
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memories posted a condolence
April rain, here. I see a photo or you... ahh, handsome Jack, and my heart swells with tenderness; extreme & intense- sometimes seeming to struggle for something in the middle - moderation. At great depths and with immensity, you touched {our} lives;, "unfettered" love, a sort of tiger-lily wilderness, and like a shooting star, reminding us of things of things that stir the soul. I'd hoped to one day hear from you- that you'd found the thing to keep you here- unveiled your divinity,
known the depths at which you'd touched lives, (then, I think how could you not have known?). I think of you "in a place, where there is no time, nor space", smile a bitter-sweet smile, because I feel a gentle tug- letting me know that you've gone "home"
- billowy blue.
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memories posted a condolence
Once upon an April, strings of miniature white bulbs strung around the perimeter of your room, soft music, & slow dancing.
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Mom posted a condolence
Little Jack, We're coming back around again. Nearly a year has passed, yet I feel you near... tucked right inside my heart.
Missing you....
Mom, Dad and Benjamin
and Wiggie too
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inspirations... posted a condolence
A beacon
Shining bright
Dim embers on
a weary night
Mightily in pursuit
of profound insights...
Jack, the stars in
the heavens, remind me
of you when they
shine at night.
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shannon posted a condolence
so many memories...that time you hit me with the pillow and cried cause it accidentally gave me a bloody nose..i still have all the letters you wrote to me from kansas...christmas time..when we drove around in the fog like losers..i miss you silly.
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Mom posted a condolence
Happy Valentine's Day, Little Jack... so much love comes your way... miss you so much!
Love, Mom, Dad and Ben
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today posted a condolence
Beatitudes; inflamed in passion and engulfed in space, we inspired and cheered each other on. {What does one do with that? Allow that precious feathered thing to perch in the haven of tenderly cupped hands, gently stroke from beginning to end, and whisper, "until we meet again."
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stefanie posted a condolence
one year has gone by since i came to pittsburgh to be with you...i miss you :(
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stefanie posted a condolence
one year has gone by since i came to pittsburgh to be with you...i miss you :(
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Happy 2008
The New Year seems scary and dim now that you're gone...
but we are holding you tightly in our arms,
binding you forever to our hearts....
and praying that you and our Lord are watching over us...
missing you,
Mom, Dad and Ben
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memories posted a condolence
It's been five years past since you and I first shared & mulled over poetry. The first you shared were from "Stanyan Street & Other Sorrows": Apartment 4E- The Girl Upstairs & the sad music she played, and Channing Way- But then someone comes along and changes all that, for a while, anyway. - Still, as the years go by". You summed me up as, "sincerely reserved". I asked you what made you happy... you said, "Well rounded, plump bottom gals", & that you were trying very hard not to think about that, at that moment. To the best of my ability, I drew one for you - your very own "Hot Hanna", & we laughed; yeah, we laughed. A candle for 2008, Jack, my dear friend.
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memories posted a condolence
You, writing in the blue velvet, your thirst & hunger, kaleidoscope eyes, that you were beautiful... {how could I ever forget?} ... another reflection of an awesome memory. xo
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Mom, Dad and Ben posted a condolence
Merry Christmas, Little Jack... we miss you so much.
Our lives are blessed by you. Tell Jesus Happy Birthday for us...
With great love
that never perishes,
Mom, Dad and Ben
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thoughts from memories posted a condolence
The eyes may see,
the ears hear,
the hand touch,
the mind think,
but only the soul knows...
that which will never perish.
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thoughts from memories posted a condolence
The eyes may see,
the ears hear,
the hand touch,
the mind think,
but only the soul knows...
that which will never perish.
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Mom, Dad and Ben miss you so much... but feel you are a part of us now... not so far away, back home with us like the good old days. I'm sorry the world was such a hard place for you... i know you've found peace...
'through the grace of God, I am serene and at Peace'
We love you so much,
Mom, Dad, and Ben
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memories posted a condolence
You once told me that you felt as though you had a hole in your heart. I responded, - that it should be filled with all the good stuff; good company, out pouring & inflowing love, tenderness, silly & breezy days, and the most remarkable of memories. I know that you discovered and experienced some of that "good stuff". I trust that, at times, you found comfort in those treasures. I don't know what you were thinking on that May day... I sincerely believe it enough to be - to simply be; You told me that that indeed was enough for me. So it is for you, too, so it was for you, too". I had a vivid dream recently in which you repeatedly said, "I want you to see and know that I'm O.K., I'm O.K. ~ Bitter-sweet.
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memories posted a condolence
You once told me that you felt as though you had a hole in your heart. I responded, - that it should be filled with all the good stuff; good company, out pouring & inflowing love, tenderness, silly & breezy days, and the most remarkable of memories. I know that you discovered and experienced some of that "good stuff". I trust that, at times, you found comfort in those treasures. I don't know what you were thinking on that May day... I sincerely believe it enough to be - to simply be; You told me that that indeed was enough for me. So it is for you, too, so it was for you, too". I had a vivid dream recently in which you repeatedly said, "I want you to see and know that I'm O.K., I'm O.K. ~ Bitter-sweet.
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stefanie posted a condolence
6 months and 1 day since i learned that you're gone...almost one year since you've been here...i love you and i miss you and i want you back!
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Grace Young posted a condolence
Oh, my child... my beloved son. If only you could see how missed you are.. how the love continues... today there was a note and a bottle of Black Velvet on your grave. I sprinkled my tears there as well, as I do daily.
November comes,.... it is nearly six months, yet the pain is as real as each breath....
my love for you knows no bounds.....
Mom and Dad
brother Ben
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dejavucharm@yahoo.com posted a condolence
"I've seen fire and I've seen rain
I've seen sunny days that I thought would never end
I've seen lonely times when I could not find a friend
But I always thought that I'd see you again..."
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memories posted a condolence
Sometimes smiles, silence, sometimes laughter, sometimes a language of tears...
We made some really good "connected" memories.
"Dylan Tears" - I recall them all.
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memories posted a condolence
Sometimes smiles, silence, sometimes laughter, sometimes a language of tears...
We made some really good "connected" memories.
"Dylan Tears" - I recall them all.
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little towns posted a condolence
In this little town "Living it up and living it down."
Left town like a bullet leaves a gun-
With kaleidoscope eyes and
thirsty lips he went and took that New York trip.
Oh, the moon was golden,
his dark hair blowing in the wind...
It's hard not to look back
to your hometown when-
you need a hand,
you need a friend...
She gave him a worry stone &
journal to write all that mattered in; to lay it on-
to record his poems, his songs...
She said, 'Baby, I still love you'. He said, "I know, I love you, too." Needing something to to get em' through.
"I hope that your are well & I sure miss you"...
"When you're falling behind in this big old world you've gotta hold on. Your little hometown's so far away- just look over your shoulder- you've still got a friend.
"And, God bless your crooked little spine- wonder if anyone else found that find."
Hold on, Babe hold on...
Troubles must have been bigger than any of us could have know to have gotten the best of you...
Friend, we walked crooked little roads, we walked crooked miles- crooked little days, our crooked style.
I miss the beat of your heart, your crooked spine, your gotcha smile, and even your half cynical mind.
Guess, you needed to go beyond this world to spread your wings and fly- to fill the emptiness inside.
Soar, baby soar.
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memories posted a condolence
In a world
full of impermanence...
forever moments-
You were intense
You were beautiful.
Found myself thinking of & missing you, today.
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Teresa Gonzalez posted a condolence
Jack and I worked together at Plainfield House in Plainfield. We were like best friends, he was my confidant and partner in crime. I will miss you so dearly my beloved friend. You will forever be in my heart and your little smirk still on my mind.God Bless your family.
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stefanie posted a condolence
12 weeks and 2 days since you're gone... :(
missing you more and more everyday...
you meant the world to me and i'll always love you
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teresa posted a condolence
Dearest Jack,
If only any one of us could have gift wrapped & gifted to you consistent happiness, joy, & hope... but, I know that we're not really of this world anyway~
we are all just making our way through it; until we reach our true destination. I've faith that you are "nuzzled up to ears of gold" and the "the birds are whispering in your ears" ~ in a place where hope floats & angels (ever how exotic) do fly. Peace, Love, & All Things Beautiful, Jack.
In my thoughts - "In a room full of darkness, a mere flicker chases darkness away." I light another candle for you.
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ana perez posted a condolence
I have known Jack for a few years. HE used to stop by and visit whenever I was bartending, and I'd make his favorite, White Russian.
I used to DJ and Jack and I would talk about music...endlessly! He went as far as making me 2 CD's that would change my life. I have many gifts from Jack, including a drawing he made of me as a Japanese Anime character.
Love ya Jack... you left us too soon!
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forever fond memories posted a condolence
Thank you for helping me to scratch beyond the surface; to adventure bone & soul deep. Thank you for helping to release
all those treasures held captive inside of me. Thank you for encouraging & allowing me to become a little bit more real. Thank you, for the time, the joy, the bliss. Thank you, J.~ for discoveries... "exotic angels" & upon your cheek a kiss.
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forever fond memories posted a condolence
Thank you for helping me to scratch beyond the surface; to adventure bone & soul deep. Thank you for helping to release
all those treasures held captive inside of me. Thank you for encouraging & allowing me to become a little bit more real. Thank you, for the time, the joy, the bliss. Thank you, J.~ for discoveries... "exotic angels" & upon your cheek a kiss.
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Danielle Somers posted a condolence
although it was a long time since i had last saw you, it was so hard at your funeral to stop the tears. The times we had together riding in my car, and just talking about life, they will always be in my memory. You made me feel like i was actually worth something, when others said i wasn't. Thanks for the talk and the walks, thanks for the life that you lived :) you will be greatly missed!
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Sage posted a condolence
I asked Jack to be my boyfriend the night I met him. He was such an old and sensitive soul, even at his young age. So talented, funny, intelligent. I am completely in shock. Miss seeing you around the neighborhood, old friend. Rest in peace, beautiful Jack.
Love,
Sage
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Kerry Uccello-Muphy posted a condolence
Although I wasn't a friend my brother and parents new Jack and his family and I only remember good things about Jack. I hope he is happier now. I read the article in the Norwich Bullitin(sp)and it brought tears and sobs. I could only look at my mother and ask why???
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J memories posted a condolence
Jack came "home" from N.Y. for a visit; spiked hair, going around town wearing a hospital gown (over his clothing. We joked, we laughed, thought about the lyrics to a song... "in this little town ~ if you live it up, will you ever live it down...".
He said that he enjoyed the fact that a little boy had gotten a kick out of seeing his hair spiked straight up like that AND that he appreciated that little boy's sense of humor. A memory which still makes me laugh.
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J memories posted a condolence
Jack came "home" from N.Y. for a visit; spiked hair, going around town wearing a hospital gown (over his clothing. We joked, we laughed, thought about the lyrics to a song... "in this little town ~ if you live it up, will you ever live it down...".
He said that he enjoyed the fact that a little boy had gotten a kick out of seeing his hair spiked straight up like that AND that he appreciated that little boy's sense of humor. A memory which still makes me laugh.
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Nichole posted a condolence
I remember staring at the stars with you on nights when I just couldn't stand to go home...we would just stare for hours...those are some of the most precious times of my life. Miss you like crazy!!
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Grace and Jack posted a condolence
Thinking of you so much... every day is hard now. We love you so much, and will hold you in our hearts forever.
love,
Mom and Dad and Ben
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memories posted a condolence
Here's to you wildest dreams
And here's to your everything
May your life be blessed with sweet happiness
Baby, here's to your wildest dreams...
I made a promise that I wouldn't cry
You go chase your rainbows, go on reach for the sky
But come hold me close now, look deep in my eyes
Tell me you love me, then kiss me goodbye
I'll always love you and I'm on your side
In whatever you do, I will take pride
Baby, here's to your wildest dreams...
xo
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Pamela Pomfret McManus posted a condolence
Dear Gracie,
I only know you and Jack and Ben as happy children. How sad to know that you all have to endure such sorrow. May the love that you've natured over the years help you in this sad time. My prayers are with you and your family dear Grace.
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Mo posted a condolence
Dearest Jack:
You and I did not have a chance to meet. But Gracie talked of you often. Her eyes shined when she even thought about you. The positive energy between you two is sometime that time doesn't quench.
Peace
Maureen
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Mary Ducat posted a condolence
I pray that you have found a peace with God that you were not able to find during your life.
My love and prayers are with you.
Aunt Cookie
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Erin Ausfeld posted a condolence
his homemade t-shirts
he was my withnail
my biggest critic, my supporter
his poems
his songs
his paintings
i was his accidental groupie
the couch at 2a where i cried on his shoulder
vodka and cranberry at the red lion
pushing him out of a bad situation
trying to be there for him when he pushed me away
running from his ex in washington square park
the night he slept on my steps - i didn't know
his raunchy text messages
his dyed hair
his laugh
quoting from films
his rockstar shirts
to jack's family: my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. i'm sorry i missed his funeral - i didn't know until yesterday. may you once more find peace, and may it comfort you to know that jack changed the course of my life for the better - i'm a better person for having known him.
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People of P.H. & me posted a condolence
We will always remember you pulling up in the green van, the books you read, your tiny handwriting, the music you shared, your hair- long, short {calling you Enrique), the mouse we caught; you took him home with you & named him Ben... shoveling snow with you - the silly winter hat you'd wear which caused me to smile.
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Susan Ducharme posted a condolence
Grace and Ben, I am a friend of Diana Lee. I am so sorry for your loss and please know that you and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you both.
Susan
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chloe posted a condolence
an hour ago, i was here playing xylyphone, and paul was singing and noelle who i always wanted you to meet was playing guitar. and we were drinking and laughing and living. i stpeed outside of it for a second, and thougt of you, watching us. you would haveloved it. i don't know why you would leave. life is shitty but has beautifu moments. you lived in that one.
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Bettina posted a condolence
Jack, I'm very glad that I had the chance to meet you in Thun last year.It was the first time I saw you,but unfortunately it was also the last time...I hope that you are happy now and that you've found what you were looking for all these years.R.I.P
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Keith and Sandy Barrows posted a condolence
Jack and Grace we did not know little Jack but our hearts go out to you.
Keith and Sandy Barrows
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Auntie Rose posted a condolence
You are my Heart and you will continue to live on there where you belong deep inside of me. I Love you....... eternity.. always & forever
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Dave Carter posted a condolence
Grace, Jack and Ben-
I am sorry for your loss. I remember that Jack always made the gathering on fremont street more interesting. I want to let you know that Jack and your family are apart of my fondest memories of growing up. Please keep in touch.
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Tami Brunette posted a condolence
Jack Jr was the light of his mother's and father's eyes. May he rest peacefully, 'till eternity. Love Tami, Dan and Lindsey
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Anna Barbara Hofmann posted a condolence
Dear Family Young, dear Stefanie I feel deeply with the loss you endure. I would like to light a candle of peace for Jack to express my symapthy with you. I supose he will be now a sound in the harmony of the spheres.
I feel with you
Yours Anna Barbara Hofmann (friend of the family Schüpbach)
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Eric Gould posted a condolence
Jack - We made music together, and that was the most important thing to you. The time we spent together going through old records and cds, modifying the old guitar amp you had with pillows and messing around with the broken sm58 some kid left after a show so that we could see what kind of sounds we could make and record. I'll never forget the creativity that surrounded everything you did. We will all miss the legendary Jack Young Jr, and you can believe that.
Mr and Mrs Young: I am profoundly sorry for your loss. Jack was a good man and his departure from this life was undoubtedly too early. But, a new trip starts here and I have faith that it is going to be a good one. Remember, Jack doesn't go anywhere if it isn't going to be good....
My thoughts and prayers will be with you in your time of loss.
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Cyndy Moore posted a condolence
Don't know where to start.... the world is out a wonderful soul and there are not enough of them. Jack always had a hug for me whenever I saw him. He would talk for awhile and show me his latest poem or drawing or piece of writing. Such a bright guy. And such deep beautiful eyes. I will not go into detail but I credit Jack with saving my son's life. He saw him heading down a path and came to me to try to stop it from happening. And if I could have seen Jack in the last year or so, I would have enjoyed telling him that my son is now happy and expecting his first child in October. Jack I hope that there is a better place for you now and that I see you again there someday! Peace!
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Cyndy Moore posted a condolence
Don't know where to start.... the world is out a wonderful soul and there are not enough of them. Jack always had a hug for me whenever I saw him. He would talk for awhile and show me his latest poem or drawing or piece of writing. Such a bright guy. And such deep beautiful eyes. I will not go into detail but I credit Jack with saving my son's life. He saw him heading down a path and came to me to try to stop it from happening. And if I could have seen Jack in the last year or so, I would have enjoyed telling him that my son is now happy and expecting his first child in October. Jack I hope that there is a better place for you now and that I see you again there someday! Peace!
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Cyndy Moore posted a condolence
Don't know where to start.... the world is out a wonderful soul and there are not enough of them. Jack always had a hug for me whenever I saw him. He would talk for awhile and show me his latest poem or drawing or piece of writing. Such a bright guy. And such deep beautiful eyes. I will not go into detail but I credit Jack with saving my son's life. He saw him heading down a path and came to me to try to stop it from happening. And if I could have seen Jack in the last year or so, I would have enjoyed telling him that my son is now happy and expecting his first child in October. Jack I hope that there is a better place for you now and that I see you again there someday! Peace!
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David and Deanna Boast and Family posted a condolence
Jack and Grace
There are no words that we can say that would be of help but know that we are here to listen and a shoulder to cry on or just sit and listen to the crickets with. Know that we are your friends and your pain and sorrow is also ours. We hope you relize that we are so deeply sorry for you and we also will miss "Little Jack" a great deal. Please know that you are in our hearts and thoughts always and forever.
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Karen Lasorso posted a condolence
The next to last time I saw you, on top of the grand staircase balcony. We talked so long I got in trouble. I gave you a swelled head telling you that even Allen thought you looked like Travolta.
And the last time I saw you. Thanks for looking out for me Jack. I wasn't late that time. You'll be in my prayers.
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Sonja & Mike posted a condolence
Dear Jack, we're so glad that we had the chance to meet you in Switzerland last november. It meant a lot to us! We still remember you playing the guitar and singing at steffi's home...
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Rebecca posted a condolence
it isn't right, jack, that we're typing these words in these boxes. I wish I could have done more, that I'd had more to give. not a day will go by when I don't think of you. I love you, my friend. be at peace.
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Fred Joel posted a condolence
Grace, after reading about your son Jack, I feel I've known him. I am very sorry for your family's loss.
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Alexandria Kwasek posted a condolence
Ben and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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EUGENE R. posted a condolence
We had some good times, and they always seemed to follow you. I'll see you one of these days.
-Peace
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Shawn posted a condolence
Jack was a small town hero. He was the winning quarterback of the Putnam rock and roll scene. I'll never forget his unique perspectives on life. Jack once told me, "Why do we stop being in awe of life? I want to spend the rest of my life in awe because this is amazing." I'll never forget that. It reminds me that the world is awesome, and I need to stop and take note sometimes and stare at everything like a small child would.
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Shea Hamilton posted a condolence
My heart goes out to the Young's. I'm so very sorry.
Little Jack will always be in our hearts.
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Trudy Bourque(Bellerive) posted a condolence
With the deepest of compassion, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Another journey begins.
Love, Trudy
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Amaris Rogers posted a condolence
Far to young. Gracy I love you and I am so sorry for your loss. amy
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Carolyn posted a condolence
I don't quite know what to say, but I feel I must say something. Jack had not been a part of my life for several years, but there wasn't one day that I didn't think of him. His affect on me was profound and not easily described. His raw talent was untameable, perhaps to his demise. It's sad that he left so many loved ones behind, but I pray that he is in a better place, and I pray his family will heal. I miss swinging out in the backyard with Grace and little Jack, those were some of the most tranquil times of my life. Farewell Jack, I'll always keep our memories in my heart, and hope that the good ones outweighed the bad ones for you as well. My deepest sympathies to Jack, Grace, and Ben.
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Kathy Pechie-Radel posted a condolence
Grace,Jack,and Ben,I remember all those many years ago when Jarrad and Ben would hang out at your house and Jack was part of the goings on. The last time I saw him was at Ocean State Job Lot a few years back. He was so down to earth and lovable. I grieve with you all. He was here with us for a short time and now he is at rest. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts. God will enfold you in His arms and ease your pain. Know that this is true. He has done the same for Jack already. Love you all.
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Amy posted a condolence
Gracie and family. I am so sadden to read about the sudden lose of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm here if you need a shoulder.
Love you,
Amy St.Cyr
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Krishna R. posted a condolence
Jack, I can't believe you're gone. The last I saw you, you were so alive! And in all my memories of you, you were so vibrant. You were one of the few people I could share things with and talk to. And now it's just so sad that you're gone. The world needs more people like you.... if only the world could handle it! I really hope that if there's an afterlife, you are warm and at home and that you are happy.
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Teresa posted a condolence
Most of the people we meet in our everyday lives- are people we meet by chance. Then there are others who we just know were sent our way.
Etched into the depths of our heart they'll always stay.
Fondest of memories ~t
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Brendalee Daigle Morey posted a condolence
Grace & Jackie
My most heart felt feelings are with you. I will be there for you both tomorrow night. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you. at anytime. You being there for me for my mom means very much to me. and I want you to know that I am here for you.
Love Always Brendalee
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andrea posted a condolence
I hope you've finally found whatever it is you were looking for. You will be missed by more than you'd ever have thought.
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Clarke Ferguson posted a condolence
I have Joanna Newsom playing and a cape cod with your name on it.
I will miss your precious heart,
Clarke
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Orlando Torres posted a condolence
Dear Stefanie and the Young family,
I'm so sorry for your loss of Jack. I only meet him that one time where we talked about NY egg cream sodas. We shared some ideas about music and the big world within our sights. He was very special and will be missed.
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mike posted a condolence
although not by blood, you were my brother. i hope that you have found the grace you were searching for. your friends, family and people you'd yet to meet will miss your physical presence on this side. rest peacefully.
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John & Diane Gilmore posted a condolence
There are no words to express how sad we feel for your loss. May our Lord bring you the comfort and strength you need to get through the coming weeks. You will be in our prayers today and in the coming weeks.
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Kevin Condron posted a condolence
Grace,
I join all my associates at The Granite Group in offering you our condolances at this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kevin Condron
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Kevin Condron posted a condolence
Grace,
I join all my associates at The Granite Group in offering you our condolances at this difficult time. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kevin Condron
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Mike & Laurette posted a condolence
Words connot express our sorrow for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Mike and Laurette
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Sally (Samaros) Kimball posted a condolence
I met Jack and his family 22 years ago. Jack was only 5 years old. Full of energy and wonder. Grace and Jack were the first friends I made in CT. I remember how much love was felt in their home everytime I visited and how much love Grace and Jack showed their children and friends and you felt it everytime you walked into their house. Jack, Grace and Ben, my thoughts and prayers are with you. May the love of your family and friends surround and comfort you at this difficult time. Your friend, Sally Kimball
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Ute,Brent & Allie posted a condolence
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We were glad we had a chance to get to know you, Jack, when you and Steffi came to visit DC. Rest in peace!
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Joan Woodis posted a condolence
I remember one day I was listening outside the door of Mike's room on Fremont Street. The two of you were playing your guitars together. When you got done you said "Wow, we should have recorded that one!". It was amazing music- I would have paid to hear that kind of music. You were a part of our family for a long time. I will never forget it.
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Marc & Michelle Beaupre posted a condolence
Dear Grace & Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Just know that he is at peace and you will always have a special "guardian angel" looking down on you. You are all in our prayers.
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Mirjam posted a condolence
I'm so sorry that you lost your beloved Jack. My condolences. My thoughts are with you. Peace.
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Crystal posted a condolence
I have many memories of Jack. From all ages. He was brillant at everything he did. His art was unmatchable.
He played music from his heart.
I am sorry for your loss- Grace, Jack and Ben.
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Dave and Pat Boucher posted a condolence
Dear Jack, Grace and Family,
We are so sorry and saddened by your loss of Jack. He was always a pleasant, quiet young man.
You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Dave and Pat
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Lea Christiano posted a condolence
Jack,
I'm sorry you had to go so soon. I remember the day you met Stefanie and how soon you two fell in love. Stefanie will deeply miss you. I am sorry you were in so much pain and I hope that you have found the peace you needed.
Lea
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Dale R Hunt posted a condolence
I barely new Jack. I spent a little time with he and Stephanie last March and found him to be most interesting and judging by what those who know him most have said, he was a true and talented origional.
He will be deeply missed and not forgotten.
Peace.
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Cathy Scott posted a condolence
Jack,Grace,you are in our thoughts and prayers. It is a terrible tragedy to loose someone so young. Always remember Jack will now be looking over and protecting your family every second. He might have left to be free but he will never be forgotten.
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kim samaros posted a condolence
Playing when we were little kids at his house. He was my first friend when I moved down from mass. I remember playing Heman with him, my brother and his brother.
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Steve and Jodie Dessert posted a condolence
Jack and Grace,
We are profoundly sorry for your loss.
Steve and Jodie Dessert
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Spring posted a condolence
At peace now, his struggles are behind him and his reward has begun. His spirit can rejoice.
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Barbara Scaplen posted a condolence
Jack is a great young man. I've had the pleasure of working with jack at our group home. Jack was full of energy and love for our clients. He will never be forgotten. His spirt will go on with his family and friends who truly loved Jack for who he is. Loving and compassion towards anyone. His music and his family was his life. Peace be with Jack and his Family. LOVE,Barbara Scaplen& Family.
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Steve and Jodie posted a condolence
Jack and Grace,
We are so saddened by your loss of "Little Jack". Just want you to know that we are thinking of you both and your family at this difficult time.
Love, Steve and Jodie
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Stefanie posted a condolence
jack,you meant everything to me..and still do.i wish you wouldnt have to suffer under this terrible disease...you fought against it,but in the end it took over control.i hope you're happy now and free of bad thoughts.you are my true love and best friend and i will always love you
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Martin Taylor posted a condolence
I met Jack around September 2001 in Bolton, England after answering his 'musicians wanted' ad in a music shop. I wasn't too aware of some of his influences that were listed, but it seemed interesting.
We met and got on very well. We were definitely on a wavelength with music and films. On November 5th, which in England is known as "bonfire night" i was visiting him at home and he played me the music he loved. Scott Walker, Smog, Beck, Tom Waits, Velvets...the heavy rain didnt deter the constant fireworks going off. It was appropriate. For me, a celebratory moment, just listening to the music he was into.
But it was the Scott Walker tape he made for me which changed my life.
He returned to the US, but i met up with him again when he visited London, making a point of visiting the park where they filmed Withnail and I, a film we both loved.
During the time, he played me the band Flaming Lips, a band i had never heard much of before, something else im thankful for. I last saw him as the train pulled away from Euston station taking me back home.
From then on, communication came via phone calls and emails. Words of encouragement and support from one musician to another, but also one of friendship.
he will be missed. Thanks Jack for your music and the music you introduced me to.
R.I.P
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stefanie posted a condolence
i will never forget all the great times we had together just being silly..you gave me so much and teached me so many important things about life and other things.you'll always have a special place in my heart XOXOXO
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Ruth posted a condolence
"Didn't time sound sweet yesterday,
In a world filled with friends, you lose your way"
(Scott Walker)...
Miss you always honey,
Rx
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Martin posted a condolence
The times spent in England and the messages across the Atlantic. The shared love for music. Thanks for the inspiration.
Rest in peace.
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R.S. posted a condolence
Tuesday, October 25, 2022
I still miss you every day. Your presence looms large in my house, Jack. We play your CD every year on the anniversary of the day we met, and the pencil drawing you gave me in the Strand basement hangs in a special place in my living room.
I love you, man. Always.
We shall forever remain together... The Stranded.
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a song...? posted a condolence
Friday, June 29, 2012
You a most beautiful soul... This world, for some reason- maybe you were born for leaving - a' many think too soon. One day, when this life ends, I hope to understand, and to see you once again.
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